Comments for Rosecry http://www.rosecry.com Love and Relationships Sun, 05 Jul 2009 02:11:02 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7 hourly 1 Comment on Media’s Image of Love ‘Damages Relationships’ by Candy314 http://www.rosecry.com/2008/12/22/medias-image-of-love-damages-relationships/comment-page-1/#comment-3425 Candy314 Tue, 17 Feb 2009 18:15:41 +0000 http://www.rosecry.com/?p=127#comment-3425 Thanks Lorin for the comment and the feedback! Thanks Lorin for the comment and the feedback!

]]> Comment on Media’s Image of Love ‘Damages Relationships’ by nubbly http://www.rosecry.com/2008/12/22/medias-image-of-love-damages-relationships/comment-page-1/#comment-3423 nubbly Fri, 09 Jan 2009 08:26:24 +0000 http://www.rosecry.com/?p=127#comment-3423 Hey, as a member of the media, I couldn't agree more! I think most movies create extremely unrealistic expectations about what it means to be in a relationship, primarily because they are portraying a fantasy of what it is to be in love. More complex movies, such as "Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind," give a three dimensional view of relationships by showing the hard parts as well as the good parts. I'm trying to do my part and create more real characters and put them in more realistic situations. If you want to take a look, you can find episodes of my web series "Speedie Date," at www.speediedate.com. Keep up the good work on the blog! Lorin Wertheimer writer/producer Speedie Date Hey, as a member of the media, I couldn’t agree more! I think most movies create extremely unrealistic expectations about what it means to be in a relationship, primarily because they are portraying a fantasy of what it is to be in love. More complex movies, such as “Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind,” give a three dimensional view of relationships by showing the hard parts as well as the good parts.

I’m trying to do my part and create more real characters and put them in more realistic situations. If you want to take a look, you can find episodes of my web series “Speedie Date,” at http://www.speediedate.com.

Keep up the good work on the blog!

Lorin Wertheimer
writer/producer
Speedie Date

]]> Comment on Co-Worker Like or Cover-Up by Candy314 http://www.rosecry.com/2008/10/02/co-worker-like-or-cover-up/comment-page-1/#comment-3421 Candy314 Fri, 12 Dec 2008 20:46:46 +0000 http://www.rosecry.com/?p=108#comment-3421 I told her and now we no longer speak...go figure. I told her and now we no longer speak…go figure.

]]> Comment on Co-Worker Like or Cover-Up by MrA http://www.rosecry.com/2008/10/02/co-worker-like-or-cover-up/comment-page-1/#comment-3420 MrA Fri, 03 Oct 2008 22:37:00 +0000 http://www.rosecry.com/?p=108#comment-3420 Yes please. Drama always spices up life... Yes please. Drama always spices up life…

]]> Comment on I’m Yours, You’re Mine…For Sure? by MrA http://www.rosecry.com/2008/10/02/im-yours-youre-minefor-sure/comment-page-1/#comment-3419 MrA Fri, 03 Oct 2008 22:33:26 +0000 http://www.rosecry.com/2008/10/02/im-yours-youre-minefor-sure/#comment-3419 Sounds like a starter marriage. Over 50% of them are. Sounds like a starter marriage. Over 50% of them are.

]]> Comment on Desperate Lonely Girl by Bam Sun http://www.rosecry.com/2007/10/04/desperate-lonley-girl/comment-page-1/#comment-2851 Bam Sun Fri, 05 Oct 2007 00:59:24 +0000 http://www.rosecry.com/2007/10/04/desperate-lonley-girl/#comment-2851 Great post. I often wonder when I'm dealing with a woman, is it me or is it my availability. I so often find that women in their mid 20s and beyond are on the hunt. I mean even the most f-cked up ones. No disrespect to real women, but I know h-es who are in their 40s, still h-ing it up. And they really think that a guy like me is going to settle them down. The golden rule will always remain. "You can't change a h-e to a housewife." No matter how much they try and clean themselves up. People, especially women need to learn to love themselves before they can truly learn to learn someone else. Great post. I often wonder when I’m dealing with a woman, is it me or is it my availability. I so often find that women in their mid 20s and beyond are on the hunt. I mean even the most f-cked up ones.
No disrespect to real women, but I know h-es who are in their 40s, still h-ing it up. And they really think that a guy like me is going to settle them down.
The golden rule will always remain. “You can’t change a h-e to a housewife.” No matter how much they try and clean themselves up.
People, especially women need to learn to love themselves before they can truly learn to learn someone else.

]]> Comment on When Does The Game End… by Bam Sun http://www.rosecry.com/2007/09/10/when-does-the-game-end/comment-page-1/#comment-2773 Bam Sun Tue, 11 Sep 2007 12:00:22 +0000 http://www.rosecry.com/2007/09/10/when-does-the-game-end/#comment-2773 Thank you cran877. It feels good to know that I'm not the only one who understands . Thank you cran877. It feels good to know that I’m not the only one who understands .

]]> Comment on When Does The Game End… by cran877 http://www.rosecry.com/2007/09/10/when-does-the-game-end/comment-page-1/#comment-2771 cran877 Mon, 10 Sep 2007 22:43:33 +0000 http://www.rosecry.com/2007/09/10/when-does-the-game-end/#comment-2771 As I finish reading your article I can only say this... Well done. I recently turned 32. I have been dealing with exactly what you spoke about for many years as well. If people would just lay their intentions on the line there are no "hidden punches" which eliminates the feeling of game playing. As I finish reading your article I can only say this… Well done. I recently turned 32. I have been dealing with exactly what you spoke about for many years as well. If people would just lay their intentions on the line there are no “hidden punches” which eliminates the feeling of game playing.

]]> Comment on Girls Who Just Can’t Help Themselves by Bam Sun http://www.rosecry.com/2007/08/24/girls-who-just-can%e2%80%99t-help-themselves/comment-page-1/#comment-2720 Bam Sun Thu, 30 Aug 2007 21:32:59 +0000 http://www.rosecry.com/2007/08/24/girls-who-just-can%e2%80%99t-help-themselves/#comment-2720 I really like this posting. And I hope that it makes some people, males and females, look at themselves. This is a huge issue. I don't care about Kate or Amy. But this is real problem for so many of us. And a good 70 to 80 percent of the women I've dealt with are like this. They don't want to deal with any of the deep rooted issues that make them who they are. For me it's painful to watch. But what can you do? I've wasted a lot of my time trying to be therapist to someone who refused to believe they had any issues. And it gets old after a while. In the end guys like me have to deal with the damamge that real bad boys cause real good girls (or they cause themselves). NO GOOD. I really like this posting. And I hope that it makes some people, males and females, look at themselves.
This is a huge issue. I don’t care about Kate or Amy. But this is real problem for so many of us. And a good 70 to 80 percent of the women I’ve dealt with are like this. They don’t want to deal with any of the deep rooted issues that make them who they are. For me it’s painful to watch. But what can you do?
I’ve wasted a lot of my time trying to be therapist to someone who refused to believe they had any issues. And it gets old after a while.
In the end guys like me have to deal with the damamge that real bad boys cause real good girls (or they cause themselves). NO GOOD.

]]> Comment on CO WORKER CRUSH by Bam Sun http://www.rosecry.com/2007/07/27/co-worker-crush/comment-page-1/#comment-2719 Bam Sun Thu, 30 Aug 2007 19:28:09 +0000 http://www.rosecry.com/2007/07/27/co-worker-crush/#comment-2719 Hey troubledzen, thanks for your response. I do agree with you. I probably did freak her out when I tried to cut through the game. But as sad as it is so many people enjoy the games that life's situations can give way to. And as far as I can see it goes both ways. A lot of my guys are what women would consider dogs. I've played as well. But I'd hoped that age would be the factor that pulled some people out of the game. But hell the more I think about it, I know many 50-year-old game players. So. guess some people never change. Kinda sad. Thanks again.....Bam Sun Hey troubledzen, thanks for your response. I do agree with you. I probably did freak her out when I tried to cut through the game. But as sad as it is so many people enjoy the games that life’s situations can give way to.
And as far as I can see it goes both ways. A lot of my guys are what women would consider dogs. I’ve played as well. But I’d hoped that age would be the factor that pulled some people out of the game. But hell the more I think about it, I know many 50-year-old game players.
So. guess some people never change. Kinda sad.
Thanks again…..Bam Sun

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