Comments on: Girls Who Just Can’t Help Themselves http://www.rosecry.com/2007/08/24/girls-who-just-can%e2%80%99t-help-themselves/ Love and Relationships Tue, 06 Jan 2009 07:46:21 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7 hourly 1 By: Bam Sun http://www.rosecry.com/2007/08/24/girls-who-just-can%e2%80%99t-help-themselves/comment-page-1/#comment-2720 Bam Sun Thu, 30 Aug 2007 21:32:59 +0000 http://www.rosecry.com/2007/08/24/girls-who-just-can%e2%80%99t-help-themselves/#comment-2720 I really like this posting. And I hope that it makes some people, males and females, look at themselves. This is a huge issue. I don't care about Kate or Amy. But this is real problem for so many of us. And a good 70 to 80 percent of the women I've dealt with are like this. They don't want to deal with any of the deep rooted issues that make them who they are. For me it's painful to watch. But what can you do? I've wasted a lot of my time trying to be therapist to someone who refused to believe they had any issues. And it gets old after a while. In the end guys like me have to deal with the damamge that real bad boys cause real good girls (or they cause themselves). NO GOOD. I really like this posting. And I hope that it makes some people, males and females, look at themselves.
This is a huge issue. I don’t care about Kate or Amy. But this is real problem for so many of us. And a good 70 to 80 percent of the women I’ve dealt with are like this. They don’t want to deal with any of the deep rooted issues that make them who they are. For me it’s painful to watch. But what can you do?
I’ve wasted a lot of my time trying to be therapist to someone who refused to believe they had any issues. And it gets old after a while.
In the end guys like me have to deal with the damamge that real bad boys cause real good girls (or they cause themselves). NO GOOD.

]]> By: Candy314 http://www.rosecry.com/2007/08/24/girls-who-just-can%e2%80%99t-help-themselves/comment-page-1/#comment-2718 Candy314 Thu, 30 Aug 2007 13:03:17 +0000 http://www.rosecry.com/2007/08/24/girls-who-just-can%e2%80%99t-help-themselves/#comment-2718 I was engaged to the "jerk" and finally called it off...now I am engaged to the good guy! :-) As for my friend, she still hasn't learned her lesson and will continue to be with the jerk. One day, I hope she will wake up and see that its not the drama that makes the relationship a "relationship". I was engaged to the “jerk” and finally called it off…now I am engaged to the good guy! :-)

As for my friend, she still hasn’t learned her lesson and will continue to be with the jerk. One day, I hope she will wake up and see that its not the drama that makes the relationship a “relationship”.

]]> By: taveren99 http://www.rosecry.com/2007/08/24/girls-who-just-can%e2%80%99t-help-themselves/comment-page-1/#comment-2716 taveren99 Thu, 30 Aug 2007 05:53:00 +0000 http://www.rosecry.com/2007/08/24/girls-who-just-can%e2%80%99t-help-themselves/#comment-2716 You know what though? I see the jerk as a filter for the better guy. How does this woman react to the jerk? Does she go back and get another jerk, or is it a one time thing she learns from? The better girl will learn from that experience and use it to understand the good catch if a "great guy" is available. I tend to like older women because of their experience with this scenario. You know what though? I see the jerk as a filter for the better guy. How does this woman react to the jerk? Does she go back and get another jerk, or is it a one time thing she learns from? The better girl will learn from that experience and use it to understand the good catch if a “great guy” is available. I tend to like older women because of their experience with this scenario.

]]> By: Candy314 http://www.rosecry.com/2007/08/24/girls-who-just-can%e2%80%99t-help-themselves/comment-page-1/#comment-2711 Candy314 Wed, 29 Aug 2007 18:42:32 +0000 http://www.rosecry.com/2007/08/24/girls-who-just-can%e2%80%99t-help-themselves/#comment-2711 Thanks for the comment. I know I have done it before...I think all women tend to do it. (At least at some point in life) I think I am a woman with high self-esteem and of high self-worth. I still see friends that pass the great guy by to go out with the schmuck that treats them like crap. Who knows...maybe its just the life, love experiences that we must go through... -Candy314 Thanks for the comment. I know I have done it before…I think all women tend to do it. (At least at some point in life) I think I am a woman with high self-esteem and of high self-worth. I still see friends that pass the great guy by to go out with the schmuck that treats them like crap. Who knows…maybe its just the life, love experiences that we must go through…
-Candy314

]]> By: taveren99 http://www.rosecry.com/2007/08/24/girls-who-just-can%e2%80%99t-help-themselves/comment-page-1/#comment-2697 taveren99 Tue, 28 Aug 2007 17:28:17 +0000 http://www.rosecry.com/2007/08/24/girls-who-just-can%e2%80%99t-help-themselves/#comment-2697 As a male who's seen his share of situations like this (I myself have been passed over for an asshole a couple of times lol), my thought is these women just simply RESPOND to these personality types. This idea is slightly different than responding to a jerk BECAUSE of issues of self worth--in other words they may not actually LIKE these guys or what they stand for (and they know they don't), but they forego reason because of a simple biological response. That's about the most sense i'm gonna make (lol), so I'll stop there. As a male who’s seen his share of situations like this (I myself have been passed over for an asshole a couple of times lol), my thought is these women just simply RESPOND to these personality types. This idea is slightly different than responding to a jerk BECAUSE of issues of self worth–in other words they may not actually LIKE these guys or what they stand for (and they know they don’t), but they forego reason because of a simple biological response. That’s about the most sense i’m gonna make (lol), so I’ll stop there.

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