Jasmine, without knowing the answers to the many questions swirling around in my mind, I offer you this suggestion: understand yourself before committing yourself to any of the above men. It appears that these three men, bring out very unique qualities within you, in fact stimulate three very unique sides of you.
Have you made a list of all the qualities and characteristics that you want in a mate? If you have not, I encourage that you create the list ASAP! The list will serve as your checklist for when you meet/and or decide to pursue a relationship with someone. Once you make that list, prioritize the qualities and characteristics in the order that they are most important to you.
For example, you wrote that you like Guy #1 partly because you feel “content” with him, yet you “love” the fact that Guy #2 is passionate and makes you feel passionate spontaneous, and adventurous. What that suggests to me is you have the capacity to be comfortable with a person, however enjoy variety and adventure. Assuming you could only have one or the other, which is more important feelings of contentment or variety and spontaneity?
Finally, it is obvious that attention and time are very important to you as evidenced by your reliance on Guy #3 solely for the purpose of providing that to you. Make sure that you exemplify the qualities you seek in a mate less you find yourself using your partner to meet needs that you yourself cannot meet. Hence, my advice again is, date yourself first, get to know you and in doing that, you will have clarity as to which man, if any would be a good partner for you.
Be blessed, live free and love more,
Latricia