Nov
30
    
Posted (chief) in Romance, Weddings, General on November-30-2006

If you are planning to pop the question soon, you are probably thinking about ways to do it. A lot of men like the traditional “on bended knee” type of proposal, and many women think that is the perfect way to do be proposed to. If you want something different, there are many marriage proposal ideas out there to make it something neither of you will ever forget. You may have seen unique proposals on television and you want to do this for the woman (or man) you love. With a little thought, you can come up with something meant just for the two of you.

When thinking of marriage proposal ideas, just think about what you have in common. What are your favorite activities? Where do you like to go? What are some of the inside jokes you share? Thinking of these things will help you come up with unique marriage proposal ideas. Don’t stress too hard if something does not pop into your mind right away. Sometimes, you just have to put it into your mind, and a great idea will pop out at you when you least expect it. I know a lot of ideas for just about anything pop into my mind just before I fall asleep. Keep a pen and notepad by you bed just incase this happens to you.

Still stumped? If nothing is coming to you out of the blue, you may have to put a little more thought into marriage proposal ideas. Ask friends for ideas, as long as you trust them to keep your impending proposal a secret from your intended. They may come up with something perfect and save you a lot of trouble. If you have thought to ask her dad’s permission, he may have some ideas for you. Her parents know her better than anyone, and they may be able to share a special memory from when she grew up. There may be a place that is special to her that you are not aware of, and this might be the perfect place to pop the question.

Brainstorming always works great for me when I need ideas. I sit and just write down everything that pops into my mind. This might work very well with marriage proposal ideas as well. Just start writing. You may find that something pops out at you as you go, or you can combine two things you never thought would go together. The most important thing in dreaming up marriage proposal ideas is to keep your personalities in mind. Proposing to her at a football game won’t work well if neither of you go to games. You’ll find something perfect, just don’t stress too much.



 
Nov
24
    
Posted (chief) in Dating, General on November-24-2006

Courtship is the process of selecting and attracting another for an intimate relationship such as love, sex, commitment, living together, marriage, and having children, or any combination of these. Courtship may last days, months, or even years, but some lovers skip courting altogether as in cases of love at first sight or arranged marriage.



 
Nov
24
    
Posted (chief) in Dating, General on November-24-2006

If you’re lucky, the children from both parties will get on like a house on fire. Alternatively, they may end up strangling each other. No one said that dating single parent and offspring would be easy. This situation doesn’t come with a simple step by step instruction manual. Patience is the keyword.

If it’s a serious relationship developing, then any problems with children have to be addressed before living together or marriage is an option. Emphasize the fact that you’re not trying to take the place of Mum and Dad but that you still demand to be shown courtesy. Finding common ground is vital. Try to share an activity together.

In the movie, About a Boy, Hugh Grant plays a man who discovers that his romantic opportunities are increased by pretending to be a single Dad. He decides that dating single parent scenarios will bring him great kudos. He gets his comeuppance of course. Being a single parent will probably attract and repel the opposite sex in equal measure. It does work a surprisingly high percentage of time. Stepparents and stepsiblings are the fastest growing group on the planet despite all the problems. Every sort of parent needs a well earned break now and then. Just don’t ring the babysitter every five minutes. It really does spoil the mood.



 
Nov
23
    
Posted (chief) in Dating, General on November-23-2006

As marriage break up is ever on the increase, the chances are that a lot of people end up in a dating single parent situation. Having a young child makes having a social life difficult in any circumstances. Being a lone parent makes it doubly hard. Even if you can find a regular, trustworthy babysitter, the potential date might back off at the sight of sticky powdered milk on your clothes.

It’s best to be upfront in these circumstances. Don’t spring a surprise when you’re standing at the alter. There is a lot of pressure on everyone involved. It’s like dating the child as well as dating single parent. The child may disapprove and be jealous of the new person in Mum or Dad’s life. Some people try to win the child over by showering them with gifts. This rarely works and certainly doesn’t offer a long term solution. Trust has to be built up and it takes hard work and time. The child must feel that they still come first, without giving in to their unreasonable demands.



 
Nov
23
    
Posted (chief) in Weddings, General on November-23-2006

Bride price also known as bride wealth is an amount of money or property or wealth “paid” to the parents of a woman for the right to marry their daughter. (Compare dowry, which is paid to the groom, or used by the bride to help establish the new household, and dower, which is property settled on the bride by the groom at the time of marriage.)

In the anthropological literature bride price has often been explained in market terms, as payment made in “exchange” for the bride’s family’s loss of her labor and fertility within her kin group. Compare this affinal practice with brideservice, which does not rely on a compensatory “exchange” idiom for ethnological interpretation. The bride price is usually paid before the wedding.